Though I agree with some points, a note to everone. Please ignore this topic, if you follow Roseta's way of 'being a succesful member of the jazz2 community' you'll probably become just as unpopular as she is. What I'm saying is that it's not a good idea to listen to someone about 'how to be succesful' if she/he him/herself totally screwed up. ;-P No offense.