I know how a censor works, cos I've been an administration at a board once. You type what you want the word to be replaced with. So, my idea is that to keep people from getting irked when Derby edits their posts and puts in a or (/), why not have the words replaced by others?

For example, ****ed off could easily be changed to ticked, and retain its meaning.

There are multiple other soft-replacement words that could be used.