Easily, Jazz does not control me. I'm not playing it every waking minute. And for a game, the term would be "addiction" Jazz determines nothing in my life, I can easily say that about most the others in the community. It's a game, we play it when we feel like it. We aren't forced to play it hoping for acceptance. Sure there are some people that aren't fun to be around, but you don't have give them your full attention.

I'm sorry, but I just fail to see the analogy you tried to make. Jazz is a game; games don't accept you or reject you determing on how they feel. Some people, on the other hand our like that. Games and people are very different.