Complaints from people who don't have e-mail accounts? Oh please *points at Hotmail and various*, than have them get one.  There are plenty of ways for them to acquire one, even if it were merely for usage with a single site, such as J2O.
Imho the benefits of using e-mail validation in this case far outweigh those of not using it. Not to mention all the problems you'd be avoiding.
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