Don't say JJ2wc sucks. It's the best clan-tournament on j2o-community I've ever seen.
And remember that jj2 is still like any other game you can play regularly and play it with a serious mean. But remember also that a game is just a game, so if you lose, you don't have to begin making death to others. You're still alive although you lost a match, or two.

Also complaining about lag in everywhere, even with a neutral host when your ping is around 50ms, can make others very annoyed. 3hk's can also happen by a jj2-bug, so if you get a 3hk, don't always blame the host about that. JJ2 is a buggy game, but I'm still playing it.

Allright then, this is beginning to sound like I would be explaining something for some newbies, so I don't have anything else to add.