I used to have the problem of not conecting to the Server list, but now I have conected, and sit there and all the game ssay pinging. Except the ones that are gray but I can enter them. I downloaded some thing from this website it said was necisary for the Internet play, I havn't opened my ports yet, but I was thinking maybe the thing I installed did. I've been reluctant to open my ports becuase of the danger.

Any sugjestoins would be great.