Have you ever considered the possibility of they are lying to you is because they do not wish to have you in your clan, precisely because of the way you act (like starting this topic)?

I thought it was rather obvious that they did simply not want you into the clan by your very own post, that they did not have the courage to be honest to you.

Although I'm not aware of the detailed story (mostly because dear Frank Quist deleted the whole), after reading this topic I would not want to have you in any clan either.