You see, i have Vista, thus no instructions with the built in firewall

It automatically allows programs thru, with a pop up, (Would you like to keep blocking this program)

I closed AVG (Virus scanner) I've had problem with it and downloading files...

and even went as far ar shutting down my firewall..

Yet still after 30 seconds, i get Timed out..

PLEASE help, i have the update 1.23 but i can't figure out what's wrong

I can host my own server without difficulty.. But if i try to enter someone else's.. It does not work