aww yu gaiz

Seriously, though, it's all a matter of palette. You're not going to find many tilesets with working carrot bumpers, because that pretty much requires a conscious decision to get to work, but flippers will look decent in pretty much any tileset drawn pixel by pixel (instead of drawn using texture effects and such and then later automatically reduced to use the right number of colors). 500 bumpers are a little trickier but will often look all right as long as the tileset isn't too dark, because they need to work well with that rogue white color.

So I guess, no, there's no list, but the tilesets you should be checking are the ones that look like they were drawn by hand. Palmtree Plaza as opposed to Nature's Ruins; that sort of thing.