Congratulations, and I must say I admire you for ignoring grudges between clans and such. It's nice to know that a lan tries to stay out of wars like this

However, u said that u will not back down if that happens. I would. Try not to get mad about somehting that happened and end up with a war between clans for a long time. You are a clan leader and should consider what your members want. It's really tough if they have a friend in the other clan and a war is going on.